Anyway, in case you are curious- this is the list of the top reasons for divorce in Asian family (and breakups)
1) Family - Studies found that 80% of dissolved marriages in 2006-2010 were caused from family, usually from the boy's mother
2) Infidelity
3) Abuse
4) Money
Frankly, I'm not surprised. I have talked to over a dozen asian girls who are divorced and they all said the reason they broke up from their boyfriend/fiance/husband is the boy's mom.
I know of one european girl who married an asian guy (chinese/korean/japanese) and has 3 kids with him. His family never accepted her that they kept bring cute girls of their race to break the two up. The girls did not mind because, hey he bring ins $150k a year so they got a meal ticket if they can pull him away from her. After 12 years of marriage, he left with the constant bullying and married one of the girls his mom and sister brought home. He has a child and last I saw him (March 2010), he is not happy but he is making due because he made his bed. As for my friend, she is with her three kids and her ex's mom does not want the father to visit because she says the kids are garbage and not her sons'...she accused my friend of cheating on her son. My friend never wants to be with a guy and is just focused on her kids and hopefully this experience does not damage them.
Another friend, her scenario is weird. She is Taiwanese and so is the guy she was dating. They called off their engagement because the boy caved in from his family's constant bullying that they do not like her. She as a PhD in Engineering working for a local power company and he is a consultant for an engineering firm. This is the second engagement for her broken; both guys were Taiwanese and both guys' parents did not approve of her and forced the guy to dump her. She wants a Taiwanese guy only but with the constant rejection from their family, she is now thinking f*** them and go white.
White people we have seen, tend to be the least prejudice and their families don't carry that genetic trait. Now she has to find herself a white guy she would consider attractive...(heck she doesn't find Jake Gylla..whatever or Justin Timberlake attractive so I give her luck!)
Hello Serafina! I´m a mexican girl who was engaged to a korean boy 5 years ago. He broke up whit me because of his family, but most because of his mom. Now I really hate him and I can´t trust man, in fact I hate poor man because my ex was very poor. I hate asians too. I really understand your feelings when I read your lines. I hope you get better soon! :)
ReplyDelete